
As many of you know this past year has been challenging for Natalie and I. We are so thankful for the support from all of our family and friends. We know that Cannon has been in your prayers, placed on multiple temple prayer rolls and been fasted for by many. We are so thankful for you and for your thoughtfulness.
I don’t know how much everyone knows so I thought I would tell Cannon’s story from the beginning and let you know where we are today.
Cannon
Pregnancy
Everything was normal for us until ten weeks when Natalie began bleeding heavily. We were devastated knowing that just three months prior Natalie had bled the same way resulting in a miscarriage.
We rushed Natalie to the hospital and did an ultrasound. Luckily Cannon had not only survived but was kicking and moving normally. We were so relieved. However, the doctors noticed a large blood clot developing. Our perinatologist later said it was the largest blood clot he had seen and he gave Cannon 50% odds of surviving. Soon after we got more bad news when a large “nuchal fold” developed on Cannon’s neck. Nuchal folds (swelling under the neck) almost always indicate a problem such as Downs Syndrome.
Natalie and I made the decision to do an amniocentesis to verify Downs Syndrome. As you can imagine it was a tough two weeks waiting for the results. We researched everything we could about nuchal folds and the more we read the more we felt that the odds of Downs was actually low despite what the doctors were telling us.
We got a call early one morning saying that not only were the chromosomes perfect but it was for sure a boy. However we still had the blood clot to worry about. We worried because Cannon may not make full term due to possible growth restrictions or abruption of the placenta, but once again Cannon beat the odds and was born without a single problem.
He was perfect in every way. He looked just like Ethan and we were so excited to show him to Ethan and Ella. They had a birthday party for him that next day. Ella had made him a cake but she didn’t like that there wasn’t any candles to blow out. Life was good.
Early Months
Around one month of age I started to see differences in Cannon that I didn’t see in Ethan and Ella. He was quieter, slept more and overall had less expression. Other than that he was a normal child only with extra fat rolls and chubby cheeks. [Laura] made mention of his loose skin and Natalie googled what it could be. She came up with an incredibly rare skin disorder (cutis laxa) that seemed to fit. We asked our doctor but she didn’t think much of it.
Cannon continued to develop normally by smiling and laughing. However subtle signs began. We at one time thought he possibly may be deaf (our concerns began for this after he did not pass his first hearing screening at the hospital. We had to wait 10 days to do a follow up test. In those 10 days, we noticed Cannon did not respond to loud noises. At Ethan's basketball games, Cannon slept right through the loud buzzer, the whistles and the cheering without budging. We downloaded phone applications of dog whistles that we held to his ears without response. We also popped balloon after balloon near him while he was sleeping and it never woke him up. 10 days went by, they tested him again and he passed), blind (when we would talk to Cannon, he would look in our direction but always up, as if he was looking at something over our heads or at our ears, we know this is can be typical with newborns, but as he continued to develop, it didn't improve), autistic (this suspicion didn't last long because he was very attached to mommy right away and smiled often) or may have cerebral palsy (as we began the searching phase, the placental bleed, the swelling on the neck and the hypotonia led us to believe he may have suffered brain damage during the pregnancy). We weren’t for sure so we decided to see a neurologist. We were told that we would be on a nine month waiting list to see a neurologist. Natalie wasn’t going to let that happen (after a "chance" meeting of a wonderful woman at the Sunnyside Pool, I was determined to be the voice for my son. This woman I met was a mother of a child with special needs. She was also a Family Resource Coordinator to help people know what to do for their child. I told her we were waiting to see a specialist in Seattle and I told her about our waiting period. She gave me the name for two Neurologists in Seattle, gave me her card and told me to tell my local Doctor that she had referred me. I called my Dr., and within days I had a phone call from Seattle with an appointment for the following week. "Chance encounter"? I think not) and she got on the phone and within a week we were seen at Seattle Children's Hospital.
Soon we had appointments in almost every department at Children's. We did neurology (MRI- mostly normal- not much concern), heart (strong enough for surgery), vision (muscles lazy but no problems on the optic nerve), hearing (passed complete hearing tests of all tones), anesthesia (going over all rules and regulations to prepare for sedation), surgery (checking his circulation and lungs for overall health before performing the scheduled - and now cancelled- muscle biopsy) and genetics (abnormal lab results from blood work). Few answers came as all tests came back normal. With so few answers we were sent to a biochemical geneticist for even more extensive labs.
We met with the geneticist and he told us that Cannon may have rare problems such as Prader Willi Syndrome (a disease where the brain never tells your body that you are full, so a child always feels hungry) or a mitochondrial disease (the powerhouse of the cell isn't functioning properly to create energy). He sent out blood work to test for these diseases all taking 4-6 weeks to come back. Waiting is tough not knowing how to help your child but this was not the first time we had to wait for answers. Six weeks later we got another “normal” result on very detailed chromosomal tests.
Frustration grew and I knew that what we were looking for wasn’t going to be easy to understand. I began studying and researching in science journals and science based studies. Our doctors believed it was a mitochondrial disease so that’s where I started. Cannon had symptoms that were close to some of the mitochondrial diseases but none of them matched close enough. My daily routine had become work till five and research the rest of the night.
Nothing much was found for months. Then last week I was researching at home and came across this article on Menkes Disease. A rare disease that causes copper deficiency. Menkes Disease has symptoms of profound hypotonia, sparse scalp hair, loose skin, seizures, chubby cheeks, visual tracking reduced all due to a lack of copper that mimicks a mitochondrial disease. Menkes is a disease of copper transport from the gut to the blood. Copper is needed in minute amounts but can have devastating problems if it is low or absent. Just a sidenote, Menkes Disease has a sister disease…. Cutis Laxa, the disease Natalie found much earlier.
I called Seattle Childrens and didn’t get a good response when I probed for answers about Menkes. The doctors thought it wasn’t right because of his lack of seizures. We were still sure and did a blood draw here at our local hospital (We are so thankful for our friend, Dr. Derek Weaver. He believed Kent and sent in the labs to be done so we could know what we are facing) and sent it off for verification of Menkes. Menkes can be verified in the blood by low Copper and low Ceruloplasmin (a protein transport of copper).
Yesterday the results were in and both Copper and Ceruloplasmin were drastically low. With that we are 99% sure (Seattle Children's saw the lab results and agrees with Kent and sent out a full work up to confirm, results will be back in 4-6 weeks) Cannon has a neurodegenerative disorder that will shorten his life considerably. In an instant we went from being lost for answers to knowing the terrible outcome of the disease. Most kids will not survive past 2-3 years old (on average kids die around 1 year and 8 months. Cannon has not had seizures which is almost always the case of someone his age with this disease, so we are praying Cannon is writing his own story).
As you can imagine it is a tough diagnosis to handle. We don’t understand why tragedies occur. You just have faith and hope that one day families can be reunited. I feel heartbroken having to explain to Ethan and Ella what Cannon has and maybe what the outcome may be. I don’t know when or how that will be done.
Is there a cure? Because the body needs copper from the beginning of life, the only possible cure they have found is giving injectable copper in the first few weeks of life. Researchers have found that if the copper is given in the first 6-8 weeks the result is much more positive. If the copper treatment is given after the 8 week window the treatment is not effective. Cannon is 7 months old but we will try everything we can. Cannon has beaten the odds so many times, I hope he can once again.
We have been given good advice to not second guess or say “what if” with the situation. We believe that and we are so thankful that we have Cannon. He is such a blessing to our family. He will always give you the cutest smile when you play with him and we are so grateful that he is our son.
We love each of you and thank you for your support.
Kent and Natalie
10 comments:
Kent and Natalie,
Laura has been updating us frequently--Bless your sweet hearts!!! Our prayers have certainly been with you and little Cannon. I have placed his name on the Bountiful Temple prayer roll more than once. You two are the best parents a child could ever have! May God continue to bless you and comfort you. Sincerely, Doug and Joyce
You have written such a heart-wrenching account of this whole experience. It just further substantiates why we love both of you and little Cannon even more. Please continue to take pictures of this precious little spirit. He is such a joy to everyone around him, and we love to see his beautiful smile!
Dear Natalie and Kent,
Just a note to let you know that I am praying for each of you and your family as a whole.
Please know that you have so many friends and family that love and care for you.
Bless sweet little Cannon. I pray that he will have the strength for the fight ahead of him. I know he is here for a purpose. And what amazing parents he has.
Please keep us updated. And know that you are on my mind.
Much Love, Nat
Natalie, your sweet family will continue to be in our prayers. I love how you said your son will continue to write his own story. Thank you for sharing and always remember your family in Gainesville loves you!
Dear Copeland family,
Thank you for blogging and letting us know how things are. I have been keeping a close eye on your blog hoping for the best. I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I will pray for you to have what you need to make it through. Hang in there.
Natalie and Cope,
Our hearts are full as we have read your post concerning your little Cannon. We are confident that you are finding comfort in the Lord and His Holy Spirit to support you in this trying time. My favorite scripture has brought me such comfort many times. It is found in John 14:27. "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." You are in our prayers and thoughts. The Lord takes mighty men and women like you two and knows that you can handle whatever comes your way. Please let us know if you would like us to fast for Cannon and your family or anything else that you need. We love you!
Josh Draughon
I remember hearing that Cannon had some medical issues, but did not realize the extent of what you have been dealing with for the past 7 or 8 months.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Oh Natalie! My heart is breaking for you. I can't even imagine what you are being asked to go through. In reading your other blog posts, I can see that you have a wonderful perspective and I can feel your wonderful spirit and faith. I wish so much I could be there for you, just know that there is a long lost friend living way out in Michigan that loves you and is praying for you and your wonderful family.
Oh Natalie, I saw your post on facebook and looked up your blog - I had no idea you were going through this trial. My heart is hurting for you and your family but at the same time I feel you are so blessed to have this special little man be a part of your family. Sending my love to you and know we are still friends forever.
Natalie,
I have been reading your blog and can't believe what you and your family are enduring at this time. I can feel the Spirit and strength you all must have through your testimony in words. Certainly your family and little Cannon will be in my prayers and heart. I pray that you all will feel the peace and comfort the Spirit can bring to you whenever you need it.
Karen
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